A Suicide, A Lovely Couple and the Missing LOVE

Two sides of the married life are presented here recently a techie killed himself for just an issue of facebook photo, other end there are two lovely couple lives happy who sets example. What is the missing LOVE in marriages.

A Suicide

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A software engineer working in a reputed MNC allegedly committed suicide in his house at Chennai on Sunday, upset over his newly-wed wife’s refusal to remove Facebook posts of their wedding photos.

Chandan Kumar Singh (29) from Jharkhand, and Sandhya from Chennai, got married in a church in the city in July against the wishes of Singh’s family. They both were working in the same branch of the IT company when they got introduced and were in love for the last few years.

Singh’s family, which opposed the marriage as Sandhya belonged to a different religion, stayed away from the ceremony. The wedding was arranged with the blessings of Sandhya’s family.

Police said Sandhya had posted photos of their wedding on Facebook and tagged Singh in the photos. “His cousins in Jharkand had noticed the photos and informed his parents who lived there. His parents were apparently upset over this as they felt their son’s marriage in a church would not be welcomed by their relatives. They had asked Singh to remove the photos from Facebook. This created bitterness between the couple,” a police officer said.

From Singh’s suicide note, police said it was apparent that his wife had refused to remove the post as she felt there was no reason to conceal their legitimate marriage. “He had been asking her to remove the photos to respect the sentiments of his parents. On Saturday night, after a heated exchange of words, they slept in separate rooms,” said a police officer.

On Sunday morning, as Singh did not come out of his room, Sandhya checked on him and found him hanging. A note left by him said that he still loved his wife, but was upset over her refusal to remove the posts.

The body was sent for autopsy. Further investigations are on.

– Source : younews.in

A Lovely Couple

The couple Ahmad and his wife Fatima are with disabilities. Ahmad does not have both the hands and Fatima misses her legs. They got married in 2009 and filling each other’s gap. They support each other and lives a beautiful life.

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The Missing LOVE

Is Just an argument for over Facebook post enough to forget love and commit suicide? After all it just needs a small conversation to understand and sort the issue. Even if it takes few days time to understand it why not take it? Now all the dreams have faded.

Suicide is a dead end one way trip, we never can rewind the moments we made errors to resolve the problems. It is gone. Not only Chandan there are many who commit suicide every year due to relationship issues. 

Look at the other side of the world where there are couples  who complement each other so well and fill the missing gaps. Ahmad and Fatima are one such couple who both are disabled partially but they just let love to fill the gap of disabilities and it worked beautifully for them.

What is missing in others?

The words Compassion, Derteminance to be together and Perseverance are missing in the book of Love today. Most of the youth prefers to Love and find their partner. To take love to marriage takes a lot of sincerity from both of man and woman. After marriage it is just the two who need to rejoice the boon of Life together.

Unfortunately many are ending up fatefully in the hands of Breakup, Divorce, Separation and Suicide! It takes a sincere commitment for a marriage to work. Life is not going to end just with our young ages, not just being together for a few years after marriage is a big deal. Hairs will go gray, skins will wrinkle, you longer can eat what you wanted, life will bring more responsibilities, kids will grow up, we need to ensure they go ahead on the right way, future will bring the days to face to miss your parents forever and at that time you need your wife to be your strength, you need your husband to fill your dad’s place, you will fall ill the other half will take care of you, has to complement each other on every occasions of life, someday one gonna miss the other, yet the soul will strengthen the other to face it before the final adieu and the fulfillment of love will give a complete life.

Love has to travel a long distances not only it will be filled with happiness forever. It has to go through misunderstanding, anger, silly fights, days of silence, arguments, loss of trust, disappointments, etc. 

Being a couple needs the LOVE the missing Love which will strengthen both the souls to pass through every emotion and feelings of life together. If you are a couple, it does not matter who wins an argument, all it matters is not to let your spouse to lose. 

Make the following 5 oaths if you are married or about to get married, rest all things will fall in place to make your married life beautiful

1. Promise you never leave your soulmate

2. Always have the perseverance to solve and always look for a solution to stay together

3. Express your love as much as you can, convey your love with kisses every day. It will work as a magic.

4. Love the soul not the beauty. The future may bring anything, todays youthful look will change but love should remain on your spouse’s Soul.

5. Never tell lies to each other at any circumstances and a lie is the beginning of cheating which will end up in any adversity you can never imagine. 

– Words by Din

5 thoughts on “A Suicide, A Lovely Couple and the Missing LOVE

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  2. Din, I am so glad you visited my blog which led me here to this beautiful post. A much-needed message for people everywhere, especially those who plan to marry. After more than 33 years of marriage my husband and I have been through quite a lot together and still face grave obstacles, with his cancer and our adult son’s disabilities (as you may have read on my blog). Thank you for writing about the beautiful couple you describe here who complement each other’s unique gifts. They are a true inspiration! Marriage can be tough but is well worth it, as the rewards outweigh the difficulties. Strong marriages are needed all over the world so I appreciate your words of encouragement here.

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    • Hi Julia, I am sorry for responding so late to your thoughts. Some how I missed it. Your words bring me virtually the real sides of life and love. We need to go through all thin and thicks of life, but with our beloved ones by side we can do it.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts which helps me expand my soul to get more acceptance. You helped me with this. I will visit you blog more here onwards.

      Regards
      Dinesh

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