Marriage vs Live-in : Marriage with Love Wins :)

How many of you have adored an ideal couple who stand by each other’s side always? Like in some poetic movies I have seen couples who are committed to each other with loads and loads of infinite love filled in their soul. Come whatever may they remain together till their end. Do you adore such love? I do. Hats off to you if you are such a couple. I am getting emotional. Sometimes my eyes will meet a few blissful tears of smile straight from my heart, to see a beautiful couple by soul.

“Be a Man. Don’t cry” (I can hear some voices) “You lack human traits if you can’t cry or understand the tears” – says psychologists.🙂😛 There are reasons behind every drop of tears.🙂

There are two categories of people, one of which I would like to eliminate even from considering. The Category A-people; men or women, who choose this way of life “to fall in love and believe in living with one person as his/her soul mate throughout their life”.  The Category B-people; men and women, who choose another way of life “they call it free living, they never get committed, just flirt around with opposite gender when they need them and prefer to have many partners along the period of their life”. The Category-B is eliminated, we do not need to consider them, because marriage will not be an option in their books, even if they have, it is something I consider a stupidity.

A pic of a woman and her husband, a former Marine, has gone viral on social media. Kelly and Jesse Cottle were taking family photos on the beach when the photographer, Shutter Happy Photography, asked everyone to get in the water. Jesse, a double amputee, took off his prosthetic legs and hopped on Kelly's back so she could carry him. Jesse lost his legs in Afghanistan when he stepped on an IED. "It doesn't matter how heavy he is," Kelly said. "It just makes me thankful...that he is still here." Beautiful things in life can only be felt, can never be touched

A pic of a woman and her husband, a former Marine, has gone viral on social media. Kelly and Jesse Cottle were taking family photos on the beach when the photographer, Shutter Happy Photography, asked everyone to get in the water. Jesse, a double amputee, took off his prosthetic legs and hopped on Kelly’s back so she could carry him. Jesse lost his legs in Afghanistan when he stepped on an IED. “It doesn’t matter how heavy he is,” Kelly said. “It just makes me thankfulthat he is still here.” Beautiful things in life can only be felt, can never be touched

So we take people who want to live in a committed relationship. Marriages are facing challenges from live-in style. Debated. Think once, why people marry? I hit the nail on head – A way to let the world know that the couple are living together. This would be the prime reason I would say why marriage is must for a couple who choose to be soul mates. This is not like doing it for the world or to get their approval, it is for letting the world know that you are engaged in a beautiful journey together with a man or woman you love and telling them “Do not disturb us, No more proposals entertained! ” :)  Other than this all the reasons are add-ons.

So say bye bye to Live-in relationships which lacks commitment and comes with “Press Option A” to Breakup, “Press Option B” to Change the partner. Both options will ruin your life, without you realizing it. It may turn you as the rejected category-B, because of frustrations and failures in your relationships. Or you may end up hating life.

The essence of your relationship is not determined because of the Ring or Mangalya that you wear as Marital custom, it is in your each other’s soul. It is in love. It is not something about physically exchanged love, which will fade gradually as we grow older. It is not about bank balances, worst future can try to dazzle our life. It is not about happiness alone, time can bring sad moments too. It is all about that one word, “LOVE” which fills, binds and held your souls together.

So you may get the picture, it is about love which you should focus. Just two rules will conclude this

  1. Never enter into marriage when you can’t love the person truly from your heart. Let your marriage begin with your love for your soul mate.
  2. Never cheat or let down your soul mate who loves you truly, come whatever may be. Even if it is Death or a Good ending happy fairy tale, be with him/her and face it together.


Note : The song in this video is from a close to my heart Hindi Movie “Rab ne bana di jodi” the lyrics says it all what is needed.

Written for IndiSpire prompt Live-in or marriage? Which is the better option & why? by Garima Nag under Love & Relationships. Thanks for the entry Garima.

13 thoughts on “Marriage vs Live-in : Marriage with Love Wins :)

  1. Okay. I loved your piece! And I also hope that love should win everytime, whether it be Live In or post-marital Love.

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  2. Marriage is definitely scores far above than live-in. No, I am not advocating it on the name of ages old tradition but because I feel every kind of freedom ,if it needs to last always comes with certain commitments. With every right there is a duty.Marriage draws certain boundaries,instils that sense of duty and that makes the relation last .
    Yes love is an important ingredient of any relationship so it is required in a marriage too. But the love which a married couple requires to make the relationship blissful is not only roses and chocolate love rather it is more of trust,understanding and accepting the partner as he/she is.
    This kind of commitment provides us with a stability,It gives us root and roots are essential for blossoming.
    Nice write up. liked to enjoy the views expressed.
    That movie says it all.

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  3. I totally agree and Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi is one of my all time favorite movies!

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  4. Yeah..you’re right..at the end of the day..the ‘love’ only lasts and the only thing that matters..nothing else…🙂

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  5. Nice Post will not go into the debate The movie is close to my heart as it made me say a “yes” to my “average” husband with extraordinary love for me.

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    • So nice to know that you have accepted your hubby. However I would’ve felt even happy if you’ve skipped mentioning him as “average”, when his love is extraordinary; no scale can make him “average”🙂 Wish you both have a wonderful life ahead. Thank you for a genuine comment. A very few do that.

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  6. Loved the story behind the picture🙂

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  7. Nice post. Its true. Marriage with love wins. Whatever it is, whether live in or marriage, the relationship with true love and couple with better understanding wins always.

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