This Will Change You #1 : Schindler’s List

Some movies changed me, some movies shaped me and some defines me how to live this life. I have a long list. Just wanted to share a few with you all. With hope that they will impact your life as well.

Movie #1 Schindler’s List – If you want to change yourself, you can do it any time, even now this very second. All you need to do is to give up your selfishness.

We had no control over our birth. Some born in a rich family. Some in a family which has assurance for tomorrow’s food. Some in a middle class family. Some even with no idea of what was a family!

Till now we may not have realized why we exist and what is the purpose of our life! Living life for our own selves…

But adversities sometime changes our lives, may be a lot better if we are the victims. I hope many of you have an ability to put your selves in the shoes of your beloved ones. You are just a step away to love a soul who means nothing to you.

Every time when nature hits at us with Tsunami like disasters, we share a compassion for our fellow living beings. But I wonder why we are still having the culture of war and hatred. We seek so many reasons to justify why we should hate and kill another human. But why not once, just once we seek a reason to love one another?

People believe, movies are just entertainment. No it is not. Throughout my life, movies had changed my perspectives about life a lot. One masterpiece movie is ” Schindler’s List ” You want feel what is the crap I am talking about, the so called Love for an unknown soul? Watch this movie once. You will understand it.

If you don’t cry watching this movie, then I doubt your nature as human being. Many rich people are there who could do a lot, but they won’t do. Because they are selfish.

In this true story. Even this man, Oscar Schindler was known a selfish business man who lived in Germany, during second world war. But he changes his character completely and becomes a saviour. You can watch the movie to understand the depth. He values life of humans more than his car and his pen could have saved 2 more persons…

Now a days there are people who adores to have a posh life, that’s no problem, but do a little to someone who may die if they do not have food for one more day. Yes there are such people in your neighbourhood, they are in your country.

- Din

Story : We’re Cowards

1_treeWe spotted him standing alone in the darkness. With no weapons to defend himself.

He was tall, stout and strong but an idiot who follows non-violence. Those who can’t fight back were our prey by default.

We poached to attack, chop-off, kill and rob him.

“Get the saw, cut the tree” the boss ordered us.


- Din


A Must Read Letter To All Parents and Children

If you’ve failed to understand your child’s childhood then never expect that child to understand you when he/she become a grown-up individual.

Every parent and children must readWhen you child is angry or disappointed or creating havoc in your home, he/she needs either the father or the mother to sit with him and talk calmly about what could have been bothered the child. But most of the parents end up bashing on them verbally or even beat them up. If you are harsh on your child that will never make them learn anything.

Your children learn from you. Engrave this line to your soul. They learn from the little things you do at your home.

What happens when you fail miserably as a good parent?

1. Your children may carry the same personality of yours and will continue to spoil the next generation. Before they develop a consciousness to analyse and understand what behaviour of their parents, their own personality will be shaped up almost like the mirror image of their parents.

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2. Your children may develop an anti-personality of yours’. It starts as a longing for what they never got from their parents. Unfulfilled expectations and love will turn as their character. But the painful side of this story is, these children will have to go through an isolation. In order to develop an anti-personality of a bad parent (unlike their parents they will be good), for this these kids will have to go through a lot of stress.

There is a fortune which is not in our hands. Getting a good parent is a children’s luck. But every child is born as a good child, making them bad or letting them go bad is in parents’ hands.

Good children who got good parents will shine in their life by default. This is not about fame or wealthy living, but overall happiness of the family will be higher and one can find a peaceful life in such families.

Good children who got bad parents, it is the fate of the family and the future will be decided based on who changes for whom! They will make a happy family if the parents change their attitude and understand the intentions of the children. It will always be a battle for the children to balance their own life as well as trying to keep their parents at understanding level.

forgiveBad children who got good parents! Can this happen? Unfortunately, some children get spoiled due to bad acquaintances, though they got good parents who always come forward to talk to them, understands them completely. The happiness of such families is just a step ahead. Because changing young minds is easier than changing older minds. Good parents can always win.

Overall, everything has to start from us, the individuals. With your experience and maturity as a parent, when you cannot understand your children, please do not expect that poor kids to understand you and dance to your tunes, with their little understanding and maturity levels in life. More wise the soul, more adaptability should have to be there to adjust and accept. So as a parent need  you to decide, whether you want to be wiser or expect your children to be wiser? Even this choice will reflect how wise you are in real.

As the children, we also need to understand that certain things never change after a particular age. Rather complaining what is wrong with your parents try to ignore it and but maintain that rightful thing in you. For example, your parents may never have the habit of talking to you calmly, but you develop such a character for your children in the future. Whatever you missed give them to your kids. Try explaining your parents, if they never show a sign of development, please tolerate them for the rest of your life. But never get your own good values compromised to satisfy their unjust expectations.

Whether you may be a parent to your children or children to your parent, try to understand what is happening in the other side!

The future is always in our hands, if we are ready to make the changes in the present.


- Din


Story : 55 Fiction : End of Her Days

Old Well

“How life changed in dribs and drabs?” she ruminated about her good old days.

People stopped coming around. Even the ones she raised within had abandoned her.

Loneliness at ageing left no option, but to console herself. The old traditional well awaited an untoward funeral, on her very own mother earth’s lap, with no water.


- Din


Powerful Quote #177 : Rich and Poor

Rich and Poor

A poor man cannot give because he doesn’t have. If a rich man cannot give, then he’s also poor. ‘Giving’ is actually the only difference between a rich man and a poor man, not the bank balance!


- Din


 

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